If you’ve been referred for NHS therapy and are facing long waiting times, you’re not alone. Many people feel unsure about what options exist while they wait — this page explains them calmly and clearly.
Waiting months after a GP referral can feel frustrating, confusing, and emotionally exhausting. Many people reach out for support only to find themselves in limbo. This experience is common — and it doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong.
Being on an NHS waiting list does not prevent you from exploring private therapy in the meantime. You do not lose your place on the NHS list, and you are not “jumping the queue.”
Many people choose to speak with a private therapist temporarily while remaining on the NHS waiting list, especially if they feel they need support sooner.
Private therapy usually involves regular sessions with a qualified therapist, either online or in person. Sessions are often weekly, though this can vary.
Costs differ depending on location and experience, but many therapists offer a free initial consultation so you can decide whether it feels like the right fit before committing.
MoodEaser is an independent platform that helps people explore qualified, verified therapists across the UK. We don’t replace NHS care — we simply help you understand your options and connect with therapists if you choose to.
If you feel ready to explore private therapy, you can browse affordable private therapists on MoodEaser and decide what feels right for you.
Browse TherapistsNo. You can remain on the NHS waiting list while exploring private therapy.
Waiting times vary by area, but many people experience delays of several months (6-12 months avg).
It depends on your situation. Some people value earlier support or flexibility, while others prefer to wait for NHS care.